It's
Christmas, again, without my kids. I can't express how much every
little brown-skinned kiddo jumps out at me when I go to the store,
and how I walk past the toy aisles “just because” and how I hug
fluffy snow-suits in the clothing section, wondering when a brown
face will be peeping out at me. I'll try not to get too sappy, but
this is where my heart has been for the season.
Sappiness
aside, has it ever occurred to you the similarities between an
international adoption story and God's divine adoption story?
I'll
include some of my doodlings for illustration...
We
are told in the book of Matthew that “this is how the birth of
Jesus the Messiah came about: His mother Mary was pledged to be
married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be
pregnant through the Holy Spirit. Because Joseph her husband was
faithful to the law, and yet did not want to expose her to public
disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly. But after he had
considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and
said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as
your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit.
She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus,
because he will save his people from their sins.””
In
the book of Luke, we are told the next piece of the story. Mary,
pregnant with Jesus, goes to visit her relative, Elizabeth, who is
also expecting. Elizabeth's pregnancy was a miracle also, because
Elizabeth and her husband, Zachariah the priest, were very old. In
addition, Elizabeth had never been able to conceive a child.
“When
Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the baby leaped in her womb, and
Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. In a loud voice
[Elizabeth] exclaimed: “Blessed are you among women, and blessed is
the child you will bear! But why am I so favored, that the mother of
my Lord should come to me? As soon as the sound of your greeting
reached my ears, the baby in my womb leaped for joy. Blessed is she
who has believed that the Lord would fulfill his promises to her!”
After
Mary had heard this confirmation from Elizabeth, Mary overflows with
the “Magnificat” in Luke chapter 1. It's one of my favorite
passages of Scripture because it is a love-filled, awe-filled
expression of worship.
Mary
had a rough road ahead of her. She was young, supposedly pregnant
out of wedlock, going to travel quite a distance right around her due
date (no airplanes, cars or trains), have her baby in a barn, have a
group of dirty, sheep-laden folk be the first to visit. She would
watch Jesus grow up and be mocked for his “unknown” lineage,
loose her husband and become a widow, and then watch her firstborn
son die a criminal's death. Holy cow. Not a scenario many of us
would otherwise choose, and not a happy, care-free environment for
Jesus' childhood.
So
Jesus was born, as predicted thousands of years prior, by many
prophets.
He
was visited by shepherds (hardly the upper-crust of society) who had
been alerted to the birth by a herd? flock? passel? group? bunch?
...of angels.
Did
it ever cross your mind that, 2000 year ago, the God of the universe
placed His Son into an adoptive family? Ponder that a moment. Jesus
would have known what it was like to grow up with stinging questions
like “who's Your real
dad?”. He would have known what it was like to be cared for by
someone who had not fathered Him, to be looked down on because of the
rumors that surrounded His birth. Joseph would have faced the
challenge of fielding offensive questions, holding his chin up when
people stared, and being disgraced by the assumptions of ignorant
people. Their family was a “conspicuous family” and few people
would have thought “adoption”. Most people thought “bastard.”
When
Jesus was still a young child, He was visited by Magi. These wise
men brought gifts that foretold pieces of His life:
Frankincense-
because of His role as a priest mediating between humans and God, and
Myrrh-
foreshadowing His death as a sacrificial sin-payment
The
purpose of Jesus' birth was death. From the very beginning, His
birth was prophesied to conquer the Enemy and be the blood-payment
for deeds that He did not commit. When Jesus died on the cross, He
made it possible for anyone
who believes in Him to have eternal life, regardless of their race,
messed-up family, marital status, sexual orientation, mistakes,
victories, or GPA. Just have faith that Jesus took that punishment
for your
sin, and your sin will be forgiven.
So,
what about adoption? Well, Jesus was part of an adoptive family.
And, if we believe in Him, we are adopted into God's family, becoming
heirs with Jesus Himself. Jesus as our Brother.
It
struck me this morning: we will have to travel twice to Ethiopia.
The first time, we will complete the paperwork to make our kids
“ours”. They will be “ours”, but we will have to leave them
in Ethiopia and go away. We will leave promises of our return and
maybe some gifts. We do not know when we will be able to travel a
second time, but we will
come back and take our kids home to live with us.
Have
you ever considered? This is the exact
thing that happens to us in the Divine adoption! Jesus came once
already, 2000+ years ago. He lived and died to pay the price to
adopt us. Then, He left to go back to where He came from (with God
the Father), to get our home ready for us. We don't know when He
will return, we are just given promises that He will, and a Gift to
help us as we wait: the Holy Spirit. Then, Jesus will come back
again, super excited and triumphant, and take us home to be with Him
forever.
Do
you get it? It's such a beautiful thing! Praise God for His love of
His children, and His promise to return! And worship Him this
Christmas season!
Merry
Christmas from our home to yours. Have a blessed time with your
family!
Wow, this is so beautiful!! I get goose bumps EVERY time you talk about your adoption.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful parallel! I think this post would make a great children's book about adoption with a gospel message, you have such beautiful illustrations Anna :) I know it would be one more thing on your already loaded plate, but, publish this? please? lol :) :)
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